Remember gifts that you have received:

• What was the most surprising present you ever received?
• What was the occasion, who was present at the time, what did the gift mean to you
• Do you still have it? Use it?
• What would you like to tell the gift giver now about how much it meant to you?

Now think about presents you have given to others:

• What was the most surprising gift you ever gave to another? Who was it?
• What was the occasion, who was present at the time, what did the gift mean to you and to them when they opened it?
• Do they still have it? Use it?
• What would you like to tell the person now about how much they mean to you then?